female What turns me on in men when he knows how to joke and isnt afraid to laugh at himself confidence without showing off this is a rare species almost like a unicorn when he knows what he wants and acts on it the ability to give compliments that make me smile at the screen What turns me off in men when their sense of humor goes for bread and never returns when he writes hi and disappears for 3 days like a ghost confidence at the level of Im the best but no evidence has yet been found