female Im turned on by an attentive confident man who knows how to give compliments and show genuine interest I love having a man slowly undress me with his gaze hearing a deep voice and feeling truly desired Its especially arousing when a partner can be both tender and dominantlight touches I am turned off by rudeness pressure and lack of respect I dont like it when someone jumps straight into vulgarity without any conversation or tries to control the situation Dishonesty constant demands to prove something and a complete lack of tact also cool me down quickly