female What really excites me is gentleness and emotional connection Im a shy girl so loud and aggressive behavior scares me But when someone is patient kind and attentive thats when I start to melt What turns me off is rudeness aggression and loud demands Im a very shy and sensitive girl so when someone shouts at me or pressures me I just want to hide behind my books Impatience is a big problem for me I need time to feel safe and trust you