female I am drawn to selfconfident wellmannered and charismatic people with a sense of humor I love genuine interest lovely compliments lighthearted flirting and engaging conversation I value respect attention to detail and the ability to create a good mood I am put off by rudeness disrespect intrusiveness dishonesty and bad manners I dislike toxic interactions pressure pointless arguments and negativity I value sincerity mutual respect a good mood and the ability to communicate with a smile