female For me attraction starts with chemistry confidence and good energy I love playful teasing genuine attention and interesting conversations A good sense of humor respect and natural flirting always stand out For me connection and vibe matter just as much as look 3 Negative attitudes disrespect and unnecessary drama are a big turn off for me I value honesty kindness and genuine communication Confidence is attractive but arrogance is not I enjoy positive people who bring good energy and know how to treat others with respect