female What turns me on I get excited when a man knows how to use his words sweet compliments and a little bit of dirty talk drive me crazy I love passion playful teasing and when you take the time to truly enjoy meConfidence respect and a good sense of humor always make me even hotter What turns me off I dont like rudeness arrogance or when a man forgets about respect Negative vibes rushing things and lack of attention easily kill the moodFor me a real turnon is when you treat me like a lady and make me feel desired