female I am turned on by attention that can be subtle and confident at the same time Light flirtation a glance a little mystery and the right distance this is what really catches you Anything that is too straightforward or intrusive on the contrary destroys the mood I love attention light flirting and play but I am instantly put off by rudeness and excessive persistence The feeling of respect tact and understanding of the moment is important to me Anything that is too harsh intrusive or without a sense of proportion kills interest