female Little things turn me on a confident voice genuine care and the kind of male attention that sends shivers down my spine Most of all I melt from generous gestures and a feeling of security When a man knows what he wants and is ready to give warmth and admiration it turns me on 100 Im repulsed by rudeness disrespect and the feeling of being unheard I cant stand vulgarity without a hint of intelligence nor can I tolerate men who try to bully or humiliate me I cant stand greed and stinginessboth emotionally and physically If a man doesnt value my time and my mood I instantly cool off