female Im attracted to men with intelligence and a sense of humor those who can lighten any situation with a quick joke and surprise me with their wit I love when thereindness in their eyes and ambition in their soul Its important for a man to be reliable but not turn into a control freak What turns me off is overconfidence without reason a gloomy outlook on life and conversations that revolve only around themselves If your jokes are rougher than unsweetened morning coffee we probably wont match