female For them to look at me with unabashed desire while I dress seductivelyDirect wellplaced compliments about my bodyLong foreplay with teasing touches and kissesFor them to whisper in my ear with a low voice and dirty talk in Spanish Men who are insecure or dont dare to look at me with desireLack of initiative and seduction being too passiveVulgar or tasteless complimentsIgnoring my efforts to look sensual and feminine