female Erotic music scents and visual images Romantic relationships and emotional intimacy with a partner Fantasies and imagination Interacting with an attractive person who creates a sense of closeness and understanding Watching erotic movies or reading literature that encourages fantasies Manners of behaviorrude treatment aggression lack of respect for other peoples boundaries and desires are also causes of irritation Lies and deceit Insincerity and falsehood Arrogance and arrogance especially for members with high status Indifference and indolence