female Confident flirting excites me I like slow tension glances mood play subdued lights and smooth stockings neat details and the smell of perfume from a mans body kisses on the neck I get excited when Im being guided calmly and without rudeness I dont like rudeness pressure and disrespectful demands I dont like the rush and the fact that Im being spoken to as an official and not as a human being They make poisonous jokes and ignore my boundaries If there is no normal tone in communication we will not succeed