female I am attracted by confident looks and a sense of attentionSlow words spoken with a hint and the ability to keep an intrigueFlirting tension between us and the feeling that a spark is about to igniteI love it when they can tease slowly feel the moment and enjoy it I am repelled by rudeness and disrespectObsession pressure and ignoring boundariesEmpty promises falsehoods and attempts to rush thingsLack of tact negativity and inability to hear the other personMutual respect attention and a comfortable atmosphere are important to me