female I am fascinated by the foreplay that begins long before we undress an intense gaze the accidental brush of hands or a whisper in the ear with just the right intensity Confidence captivates me a man who knows what he wants and takes the initiative with elegance is my greatest weakness Nothing breaks the spell faster than poor hygiene or bad manners rudeness is a definite no for me Im turned off by excessive persistence and a lack of rhythm seduction is a dance not a race